why is my ex girlfriend so insecure over me?
she 16 and spends most her time calling me an , and when I ask why am an she ignores me like she hasn't got anything to backup what she says
I wrote poems, love letters for her, first guy to give her a rose and proberly done more for her then any guy, yet she treats me like every other guys she been with, in fact worse sometimes
I say nice stuff to her, like how I feel, or something very sweet, and she ignores me like she trying to be ignorant to it
and her favorite saying lately towards me is... "i dont care about you", this seems to be something she randomly comes out with, she started an argument with me yesterday over a girl who stuck up for me to her, and she had to make it clear she didn't care at the end, it was like insecure much?
she dumped me basically because she felt I was to shy, and not what she wanted from a boyfriend, and eva since she has been very negative towards me
but oddly enough she won't block me on msn, or delete me from her phone, or Facebook
but she rather argue with me, then get on with me, the momment we get on oorrr argue and she started to act like its bothering her she will always say "i dont care about yoouuuu!!"
she was calling me a bad name that's basically bumhole, but this site wouldn't show it so its left blank :eek:, sorry for confusion
So my ex girlfriend doesn't like me, so why does she act this way? (long story)
To give the story, I known her 4 years, we were very close when we first met, but I found I didn't trust her enough to get into a relationship with her, so we had a lot of falling outs and making ups and she would always ruin it by being unable to control herself with guys and getting cocky and blanking me the momment a new guy came in her life
So last year, after we both had relationships with other people I thought she seemed more mature so I said about going on a date and so we did, she was very excited by it, never seen her so keen, but she found me to be difficult because I was shy and nervous, but she still made first moves and kissed me, cuddled me, held my hand, and we had a romantic momment in the part where I gave her a cute teddy, and I asked her to be my girlfriend at the end and she said yes so quick, and she text me after saying she missed me
Then few days later she dumped me and has never gave a good reason to why, and claims she don't care about me and wouldn't care if I was dead, but what confuses me is, but she did go through a phase of being nasty and insecure to me for no reason like trying to prove she don't care by telling me to jump of a bridge, and then getting jealous over other girls when I mention a girls name she is like "whose she?", and trying to find out if I still liked her
Not only that but she says she wants me out her life, but she does the opposite, I mean she still has my phone number on her phone, and she has me on msn, and Facebook and bebo
But at the same time, she acts like she don't even know I exist sometimes while she chats up other guys
In the past I gave her love letters, roses and even recently I sent her a poem of how I felt about her like a last chance thing, and she seemed to be really touched by it but it faded fast
She 16, but I really don't get what's going on with her, I sometimes think she likes me and other times its so obvious she don't, I once asked her if she missed me and she said "no comment" which is the nicest I could expect from her as she wouldn't hold back in saying no