I’m unhappily married. To make things harder, I have had a crush on someone else for 4 long years. I have always felt the feeling was mutual. Recently there has been a lot more flirting on both ends. I know the grass isn’t always greener on the other side and I’m always trying to tell myself all the reasons this other man is all wrong for me. One moment I’m fine with cutting him out of my life and the next I’m heartbroken again because I want to be with him so badly. Although I feel he has feelings too sometimes I can’t tell if he’s playing games or if he’s trying to protect his own feelings because I’m married. I wish I knew what to do. I wish I knew how to put him out of my head or if I should? I’ll distract myself with other things for a bit but then something happens and brings me right back to him. It hurts. I can’t take this anymore 😞