Why is she pushing me away?
My girlfriend of almost 2 years broke up with me in February and from that point on has demonstrated some confusing behavior.
We moved from the east coast to California together and shared an apartment. The relationship was very rocky since the move with lots of fighting over dumb things.
Towards the end she developed an attraction to another man, which she denies completely, but was still struggling with the decision to leave our relationship, finally doing so because if she didn't see what it was like on her own it would "nag at her forever".
There was a lot of sadness when she finally left, I did everything I could to make it easy on here even helping load the truck, and from that moment on she seemed very up and down, even going as far as suggesting we have lunch once a week to "stay in touch".
I also know from talking to her and what her friends told me that she was miserable and didn't like the new place she was living and was also very lonely. In addition to that, 3 weeks after leaving me she slept with the other guy, who eventually told her he just wants to be friends.
Over the last month our relationship has gotten to a very angry bitter place that has caused her to block me from seeing her online and she totally ignored me on my birthday.
I haven't harassed her, I've definitely made some mistakes, but done nothing to get her this angry in my mind.
She's e-mailed me recently over petty things and they've all been one sentence communications where she doesn't even use my name such as "any word on the security deposit?" Despite the fact that she said we can't be friends right now we can only be ex's for a WHILE, I keep getting e-mails like this, 6 total over almost the last three weeks, each with a different subject matter and all short and cold.
She also told a mutual friend in an e-mail exchange that she didn't think she was going to contact me on my b-day as my last few e-mails to her have been short and somewhat cold. Basically accusing me of doing what she's been doing.
She seems very angry suddenly lately and I don't really understand why. I'm assuming it's because I told her I knew what happened with the other guy, a fact she complete denies. She's doing everything she can to push me away.
Our break-up started friendly and just progressed to a very bad place. Why is she trying so hard to push me away? Is it because she knows she's lying about the other guy? Is it because she really loves me but doesn't see how it can work? Why?