HEY!!

Im a bit lost in my relationship well not a relationship anymore but I still love my ex boyfriend and its getting on my nerve's I can't stand it he'z on my mind every second of the day and he just made it wost by getting a new girlfriend :(
I should tell him how I feel but it's just to difficult with him he's not the listening type of guy I just don't understand him sometime's I'm trying my best to get over him but it's not working :mad:
He flirt's with other girl's right in front of me and I think he know's I still like him but the thing with him he can get any girl wich mean's aah I don't know anyway SOMEBODY please HELP me I'm desperate and in need of help...

..::..ThAnKyOu..::..

I know exactly what you are going through, just a tiny bit different. I'm 16, love my ex girlfriend but she is currently on the rebound. We are talking, and hoping to work things out, but I'm receiving mixed messages.

Anyway, the best thing is just keep yourself busy. He obviously did not respect you enough to listen to you, so why bother when there are so many more guys out there who are willing to listen to you, and offer you so much more? Trust me, it gets easier everyday, even if it is by the tiniest bit.

"Time heals everything"

So again, just focus on yourself. You need to find out what YOU want, who you are, and more importantly build up yourself respect and esteem.


Good luck.

Tell us more about your situation.

Now is the time to re invent yourself and your life. This is for yourself and no one else.

1) Please abide by no contact - ignorance is bliss (not sure if this is possible in your circumstances)
2) Go out and have a great time with your friends (party)
3) Date other guys if possible and flirt big time (nothing serious)
4) Ever wanted to do something in your life like travel, a hobby or see a band you've always wanted to see? - Now is the time!
5) Its going to hurt for a while - but trust me your not alone, most people on this planet have gone through the pain your going through right now and whatever didn't kill them made them stronger and wiser.
6) Treat this as a life experience and be glad it happened to you now and not when you had children or were more committed
7) Never be Dependent on anyone else apart from yourself as you really are the only person who can make your life what it is
8) Your ex is not dead and he's obviously having a great time without you - the best revenge is to be happy yourself as he obviously is having an awesome time!
9) You may be friends again or you may get back together but at the moment you have to let go and move on with your life, you have only one life so don't wait your entire life for something.
10) Here is a quote to make you think: The greatest effort is not concerned with results :]

I understand how you're feeling now. You should give yourself time to heal. Don't rush but don't give up with the healing process.

I got out from a five years relationship few months ago and my ex has a new girlfriend right soon. I was completely devastated and heart-broken. But I couldn't help myself thinking about him almost every day and it's killing me.

What I do is to keep myself busy and maintain no contacts. NO CONTACTS is very important. Also, I would make a list of good and bad things about him. Not surprisly, the list of bad things outnumbered the good things! Then I would tell myself how lucky I am to be out of the relationship and move on.

Time will heal! Take care!

You know what... if you run after someone/something and if it's meant to be yours... it will come to you but if it is was never meant to be yours.. it will go farther if you try to catch it. Something's in life are just meant to be taken as it is... sounds like this guy didn't have anything to offer to you and when someone is not into you mentally, what would you have gained even if you had him with you... buddy, just let go... take a deep breath, hold for 2 sec and exhale. Do it 3 times.. you'll feel better. Each one of us goes through problems in relations and trust me, no one, absolutely NO ONE is worth losing you sleep over... you are your best buddy... move on with a smile

I have the same problam. I still love mi ex. He mae me feel so good inside but I caught him cheating on me and we had this big ol' fight. But I still love him. But the prob. Is I still love mii current boyfriend. I'm just confused. I can't get either of them off my mind. I just tol him on myspace how I feel and I feel a little, better but I'm just so confused I need some advice or someone to talk to about this... HELP ME , HELP DESK!

Time is everything my friend. How cliché does that sound? Honestly, that's the best advice anyone can give you.

Do not contact him.
Do not stare at pictures of you two holding hands, kissing, whatever you did all day.
Do not dwell on the past.

Build a life that your happy with without him in it. Be happy, confident, and put a smile on your face.

As Leona Lewis sang, "It will all get better in time"

What could happen when a girl still loves her ex boyfriend?
1)She tells him "I still love you" and knows that he still loves her. They get back with a stronger feeling
2) She tells him "I still love you" and being ignored and disrespected.
3) She doesn't tell him and feels sad for a long while and later falls in love with a person who loves her better.
4) She couldn't forget him and suffers every day.
5) She finds out later she doesn't really love him.
I thought I would never get over a person, but now I know number five is my result for today. And before that number three gives me the strength and understanding of being grateful.
Life is going on.

Never make someone your priority when you're just an option in their lives... u got it?. Njoy the moments u hv by doing what u've bn wanting to do in a long time... go girl... get over it...

I like my boyfriend right now but I love my ex I can't forget about him I sometime sthink he really still liks me and everyone tels me that but were in different school and I still can't forget about him its been one year and I'm the one who messed the relationship up :(

So just delet him off Facebook msn and try to avoid contant just till your over him and then try talking to him as FRIENDS :)
Hope thins helps

I just broke up with my boyfriend today, it hurts so much, but he said that he still wants to be friends. I don't know what to say to that, because I love him still, and it will just kill me even more to see him get together with other girls. But I will get over it sometime, and I got this forward that makes me feel so much better. This is what it said-

"As we grow up we learn that even the one person that wasn't supposed to ever let you down probably will. You will probably have your heart broke more than once, and its harder every time. You'll break hearts too, but just remember how it felt when yours was broken, you'll fight with your best friend, you'll blame a new love for things an old love did. You'll cry because time is passing too fact, and you'll eventually lose someone you love. So take to many pictures, laugh too much, and love like you've never been hurt, because every 60 seconds you spend upset, is one minute of happiness you'll never get back!"


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