My boyfreind and I have been going out since June 2 2007. Before when he asked me to be his girlfriend he use to talk to me more on msn and use to care a lot. But now its like everything is going wrong I got really mad at him. I am not sure if how I'm acting is the way a good girlfreind should be like but, like every time I want to do something with him he says he's busy and that he can't but then tells me he wants to be with me and says sorry he's done it a couple of times.he almost never calls me. I need to tell him to call me and he says he can't or sometimes says his mom is on the phone. And once when he called me I asked him what were going to do today and he said you probably nothing but I need to do things. I had it we can't ever do things only once in a while and I want to do things with him but he never can or god knows if he's lying to me not to see me or something.he does tell me he wants to see me. Anyway I don't want my summer to be boring I want to go out with boys but I can't cause I have a boyfreind and I don't cheat. I asked him today if were going to go to the shopping mall next to my house and he said it was too far but he went there a lot of times with me but now he says its too far. Then I asked him if we can go to a shopping mall next to his house and he said maybe then I told him id go there if he wanted me to then he said he wanted me to but he was busy. Help me! I am so upset I love him but I feel like he has better things to do then to be with me and this love might be over soon if I don't get some real advice.

Girl, he's just leading you on... as simple as that... keeping you as an option.. this guy is not completely into you... so don't waste too much time. However before you decide anything, get a grip on yourself and confront him and take an adequate step.. positive or negative... both will be in your benefit.

First question is how old are you guys? From your post, it sounds like you are fairly young and this is maybe one of your first relationships, so you are just kind of learning how the whole dating thing works (which is never an easy lesson, but a necessary one). It sounds to me like he is not really looking for any kind of commitment, and if you have only been going out since June 2nd and are already this unhappy, maybe this isn't the guy for you right now. There is really no need to be tied down when you are young anyway- instead you should be out having fun!

I agree with both the post above it sounds like to me your both young, don't b tied to one person go out have fun and when its time to find that lifetime partner he'll come along until then be out look and watching some guy you might have thought would b great to date you might find out is a jerk from watching. Hope this helps!

I can't agree more with the above posts, but want to add...

You have only been going out for 18 days, chances are it is not quite love yet. Definitely not for him.

You are trying to move too fast and too furious. Slow down the pace a little. Let him have a life. You need a life too.

You don't need to spend 100% of the time together.