Originally Posted by imadeamistake
My girlfriend broke up with me two weeks ago, after we were going out for four months, over a text message, and i think the main reason was because i got too involved in her life and she wanted to hang out with her friends more. i got upset when she started hanging out with them instead of me, and thats what caused us to argue and breakup. It was pretty much my fault, because one of the things she liked about me was that i'm a really nice person, but then one night i said a couple of not too nice things when i found out i wasn't gonna see her for almost two weeks because of her friends. She was my first girlfriend, and i didn't realize it's okay to want to see your friends sometimes, because at first she didn't have a problem with being away from them. After we broke up, she told me she thought about it alot and decided her friends are more important. I just hate that i made her choose, because i really didn't want to make it seem like she had to. I dunno why i was all obsessed like that, because it seems silly when i think about it. The problem is, i might still be obsessed because i kinda sent her some emails over the past two weeks that said i was sorry and i explained that i got obsessed, and i told her her friends won't be a problem because i learned my lesson. I said i would have stopped if she would have given me a chance. Now i realize i should have just given her space instead of sending her like 6 emails. She responded to two of them, but not to any of the last three. I decided to stop contacting her, but i think i might still have those kind of strong feelings for her, and she's in a couple of my classes at school (I'm sixteen) and i'll have to talk to her in a week when school starts. I'm just looking for advice, because i'm having trouble moving on.