After 2 Years she needs a break - What do I do?
Hey Everyone,
I just wanted to start by saying I've read some posts about this already and you all seem to give really great advice so I thought everyone could possible help me out too.
So here is the situation.
Me and my girlfriend met over 2 years ago (she was 15 and I was 17) and we are now 20 and 18. The relationship was great and we never had any problems we always communicated and never had any ridiculous fights or any big problems. We are great at solving problems and now this one just seems too much for me to figure out.
We celebrated our 2 year anniversary not too long ago and the anniversary went down without a hitch. It was perfect. A few days later she went away on vacation to another province for march break and she came back acting weird (before anyone suggests it was cheating it wasn't that just continue to read on). I tried acknowledging the problem for several days since she got back and there was really nothing I could do or say to get her to open up (which is weird of us/her). So finally on Tuesday I managed to get it out of her and she said that she is really unsure of what she wants anymore and she needed a few days not to think about it (I originally thought it WAS cheating but I didn't accuse or make assumptions).
She came down yesterday we had a real good talk, she even slept over but it just didn't feel the same, she seemed a little distant. So she went home the following morning and we had a really good talk over msn. It turns out that she was feeling that she was feeling as though she was missing out on something and that while she was in quebec she almost broke out of her shell or something along those lines. To cut a long story short she basically said that she doesn't know if she can figure out the person she is with someone else but the thought of losing me is so painful for her.
I mean I'm so torn up about this, I don't even know what to think or feel. We decided on msn that we would take another break until this Monday so she can clear her thoughts and think what she needs in her life. I really support her but its so hard to support someone when you fear they're going to break you heart.
Anyway, I know there probably isn't anything I can say or do that would really change her mind at this point but I just want to know if something like this is at all recoverable and just wanted to see your guys thoughts about the whole situation.
Thanks