My girlfriend of 3 years wants a break. Don't know what to do. So upset.
Hi,
Ive been with my girlfriend for 3 years now, we have a great relationship and we have no arguments, I never worry about a lot but lately I may ahave been asking a few many wquestions about where the relationship was going. Problem is I am 5 years older than she is. She has just turned 22 and I am 27. She has only slept with 2 guys but from when I met her she is not the type to sleep around she does not believe in that. She used to go out before we met and kiss guys but that was it. When we were first together I took it slow cause thougt that would be best for the long term and to keep her keen.
All of a sudden she just turns up and says I think we should have a break. The last few days have been fine she always rings or messages at night and says areyou sure I'm not calling to often I don't want you to go off me. We do not live together but normally see each other 3 or 4 nights a week. She said to me I love you but don't know if it's the way I'm meant to feel about someone forever. She said she thought she would feel like she could not live without that person and says she does not always feel this way about me but I'm a great guy. She said she is dependent on me too much and just wants to have some time to know she can be by herself before she lets someone into her life.
Maybe its over for me, she said she has been thinking about this for a year and at times contemplates the thoughts of having a future wth me and thought she could but now she really does not want to have to think about the future at this stage in her life and does not want to have to think of someone else, she wants to think about herself
She is in her final year of uni . She was so keen but what should I do??