Don't know what to do with a jealous untrusting emotional boyrfend
:confused: the day I met Joel I felt I fell for him immediately. I loved and love him so much. He seemed so perfect a great body and even better and incredible sweet personality. A month into the relationship he started talking about how he wanted to marry me once we go off to college and that if I ever dumped him he would commit suicide. I thought at first wow I'm so meaningful to him but as time went on he kept sayng that And now I'm scared to ever want to dump him because he mght kill himself. Also whenever I say "baby idk who I want to marry and when I'm just in highschool and dnt think about that part of my future yet" he jokingly accuses me of not lovng him and then later on in the conversation begging to know why I don't know that part of my future and if I picure him as my husband. It's annoying and scary. I do love him with all my heart I have never felt such a beautiful warm feeling inside but I think he's way too ahead of himself. Another thing is he's a jealous man he is always insecure questioning whether I am where I say I am or with my family or not... or if I'm cheating on him. I told him I am not a liar and that is the truth I would never lie to the one I love and much less be unfaithful especially when my ex boyfriend was unfaithful so I know how t feels. I'm in a mix of emotions of anger love sadness passion confusion and lonliness. I don't know what to do and how to tell him to trust me and all and also that I need alone rme and he can't expect to call and be with me all the time. What should I do?? Dump, keep, talk to or wait ahhhh what else I do love him I just need to fx those problems.
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That's not love if you have to be jealous of someone you love.