I have a very strong attraction to psychotic men, I often fantasize about sexual encounters with these sick derranged men and dream of oneday fullfiling these fantasies. I find them very appealing, the sick twisted mystery about thema and their ruthless violence, to be able to dice someone up is amazing in its own way, and I love the emotionless cold glaze in their eyes. Is this normal? What would it be like to have a sexual encounter with one?

Normal? What's normal? What's great is that you admit you have these fantisies, most people think it but never say it so good for you! But the real question is are you able to act out these fantisies some how? And now that you have them what are you going to do with them?

This seems to be a unique fetish. I don't think that there's such a thing as normal, so don't think of it like that.
What concers me, however, is what you could do. Do you have any man like this around you? Because last time I heard of a fetish like this, it didn't end well... if it's just a fantasie, then no harm, but if you have men that could... conform to your particular needs, then you should be careful and safe:D

I don't want to act the fantasies out, I want to genuinely fulfill them, yes I do have one guy I have my eye on, he is very powerful and has killed before, he is currently in prison, but we are very close etc, he will be out soon so we will be able to see what happens then. Do you think it is risky?

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Do you think it is risky?

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i dont want to act the fantasies out, i want to genuinely fulfill them, yes i do have one guy i have my eye on, he is very powerful and has killed before, he is currently in prison, but we are very close etc, he will be out soon so we will be able to see what happens then. Do you think it is risky?

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This is exactly what I was referring to. Sex with previous... murderers is very dangerous because they may lose control and kill you as well:( ! Please... keep them fantasies:p :D !

I know personally I really like having spotaneous flings with serial killers... gets my blood pumping... no really... VERY DANGEROUS!! Try to keep it as a fantasy... for your own safety..

Is it worth the risk of being strangled to death to find out if this guy lives up to your fantasy?

Ummm I like to read about serial killers... but I can't say I have ever fantisized about having sex with them. I don't think that it is wise for you to even meet this guy face to face. He has killed once. What's to stop him from doing it again?

This thread reminds of the book My Secret Garden about female fantasies. Don't ask me how I know. ;)
Very erotic book if you are uninhibited.

Fantasies are sometimes best left as a fantasy. This is one of those.

Especially this one. Are you by any chance a necrophiliac?

How the hell do you 'find' a serial killer by the way?

Are_you_crazy.co.uk maybe
But seriously, a serial killer is not capable of control. If you arouse them you arouse their urges and those involve you being dead. How is this sexy? A bad boy is one thing, but this would be suicide! Would you do that to your friends and family? Having a sick fantasy is something you can't help but acting on it is a totally different matter. In fact I find this idea so insane I'm inclined to think its made up. I really hope so for your sake.

I agree with EnglihsRose. We all have fantasies, but the point of a fantasy is for it to remain a fantasy!

I think there is nothing wrong with this fantasy but the fact you want to act it out is quite a worry, do you want to do this or is the urge more in control of what your rational mind is telling you? I think a lot of people find a rebellious guy a turn on but usually it's a reflection of the admiration they feel for someone who can just do things and not care about what anyone else thinks or feels around them, maybe something they wished they could do maybe not to the same extent, I think being liked by someone like this as well can make you feel unique like you are very special, and the excitement because of the risk involved, but I am feeling that some curiousities should just not be fulfilled if your life could be at stake. Find someone run of the mill and get them to dress up as freddy cruegar or something.

I would simply ask this: What is your relationship with your father - and your parents?


Ps - if you can answer that seriously, I might take this posting seriously...

I have the same problem except it is women and they find me. But they are psychotic none the less. Not so much wanting to cut up people in a physical way but wanting to destroy in a general way.

How so, matt? Like, empty your bank account and cheat on you with a sibling?

I agree with the others. I have a fantasy about Rick Springfield but I know it won't happen any time soon. Some fantasies especially dangerous ones should be kept that way and not acted on. For you safety as well as those around you. Not only will they threaten your well being but those around you.
Also I think everyone might have a fantasy like that from time to time. Not just with men like that but something along the lines as risky

A serial killer is someone who kills people the same way same method every time. Like the green river killer, ted bundy and gary gilmore. They also keep souvoniers from their crimes so they can relive them.