GF Walks out last night, Out of the Blue
Hi all,
First timer here, just found this great site while browsing in a confused daze.
Been with GF for 3 years, we really clicked together, but I am older (5 years) and have been in a relationship before. She has not.
We have both moved to a new city, new life at the beginning of the year.
She is studying, I am working.
Yesterday, we went out shopping/movies etc and I am getting really strange vibes (the last few days)
I know she has been going out the last 3 nights with some new overseas students she met earlier in the week. So I asked what was wrong and she becomes all teary, she says she got drunk and stayed up all night with this guy and kissed him.
She says she now wants space, leaves all of a sudden and goes back to her place.
The last 24hours have been a turmoil of emotions, but I have respected her space (she said she will call tonight) and not succumbed yet to the madness of pain and attempted contact.
She has only ever been loving and lovely and I really really am in love with her. The world lights up when she around.
But I feel she wants new experiences... but I cannot bear to think of her with someone else.
What to do?
Not answer when she calls tonight? Just give her complete isolation for her to experience (as she sortof wishes) despite wanting to ask her to come home?