Communication is KING!!
So today is valentines day. Big day for couples.
Guys: Women use this day to reflect on their relationship and figure out where it stands. You better be in good standing! Women are evaluting the relationship - seriously - almost should I stay or should I go?
Write a personal NICE note telling her how you feel! And why you like her (if you've dayed for a while - not early on daters)!! That's really what she wants!! And for you to LISTEN to her. She just wants to spend time with - and a nice dinner works along with this.
Women: guys think this is a day to impress you - fancy dinners, presents, flowers. Guys DO NOT get Valentines day at all.
EVERYONE: Communication is king!! Talk. LEARN to listen - I mean really listen. ZIP that trap up whne the other person is talking. Remove 'interuption' from your life - plus it's really rude!!
Learn to listen!! Talk learn to express to your loved one things that annoy and figure a way to work around it.
Listen!! Really listen.
Then tell your loved on how you FEEL about things.
Today can be a great day to learn new communication skills. If you don't communicate well your relationship is doomed.
I do advise at least once a week to sit - NO TV - NO DISTRATIONS - and talk!! Talk!! About what's going in their lives - things you taKE FOR GRANTED - get things off your chest.
DID I SAY LEARN TO LISTEN??