I love my boyfriend but I also have feelings for another man who is my best friend. Is it wrong for me to love both men at the same time?

I don't believe you can be truly "in love" (romantically) with two people at the same time. When you're "in love" with someone you don't hurt, betray, or develop "love" feelings for someone else!

If you are feeling romantic love for this other person, then you need to step back and take a look at your current relationship, as something is definitely missing.

It is possible to love two people at one time... its not exactly healthy to do because someone usually gets hurt but... if you love your boyfriend and you are happy with him then you need to never stray away from that... grass is not always greener on the other side and when you and boyfriend are going through hard times its not acceptable to turn to the other person... you can't control who you love... and because you love this other person doesn't mean that you have betrayed your boyfriend... esp since you say this person is your best friend.. seems perfectly normal because you probably spend a lot of time around each other and talk a lot... this love probably didn't develop over night its probably been there for a long time and you have come to the reality that you love him... now if you are considering "being" with this person.. therein poses a problem because then that means there is something wrong in your current relationship and you need to possibly evaluate what you want and need before you proceed and hurt your current boyfriend..

Its not wrong, but the way you handle it could be. Stay within the boundaries of good behavior with them both, and things will not get to a point of bad behavior, because you are confused about what to do about your own feelings.

Good advice tali!!

Its def not fair to your boyfriend