I've been in my long distance relationship for 2 whole years, I am completely in love with this guy and I know he loves me. However, I've noticed that as we are more comfortable with each other, he messages me less, and makes less effort with sending messages or being "affectionate" than he did when we first started our relationship. When I mention this to him, he gets offended and says that it's me who is paranoid and I have nothing to worry about. I know I am a woman and I am more sensitive than he is, but I am worried that we are stuck in a rut or worse- we will start drifting apart. I enjoy the comfort of someone telling me they love me or showing it, everyday. Am I asking too much?

Is this all online?

Or have you actually spent time together? As a couple.

How did this all start? How much actual time have you spent together in 2 years?

What's the plan?

"I enjoy the comfort of someone telling me they love me or showing it, everyday"
Who doesn't?

That's the whole thing about LDs, your boyfriend (gf) is never there.

Like a great vacation, then back to work.

When does this LDR end, as no one can keep things going forever, when you are never together.

Why is this an LDR any way? What's the plan? Two years apart is bound to make one of you needy.