Originally Posted by NJCUTIE77
To answer Val...(in which my real name is Val by the way lol), I think that when you have an intimate relationship with someone trust is important... But I guess I see your point.. You could still love someone without trusting them, but I think in most cases, when the trust is taken out of the relationship, the relationship is no more....
I don't really understand what you mean by, "so much illusion going on with him"... do you mean that he is very sick? I'm confused lol.... I studied up a lot on his illnesses... I also think that my situation characterizes some Borderline Personality as well... but I was there through everything. I accepted him and his illness... I found him a psychiatrist. He takes meds, but not constantly... like forgets one day and doesn't take them at the exact times. I know he can't handle stress bc with other stressful situations he has "wanted a break".. I guess this last one was the icing on the cake. I keep hoping that he will realize what I was to him ... there aren't too many people like me left around... He should be lucky... This is why part of me doesn't think this is "false hope"... and everyone is different I guess..