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  • Jan 2, 2007, 08:14 PM
    Sodium
    Move in Or back off
    OK I like this guy but him and his girlfriend just broke up and I'm wondering if I should go for him before someone else does, because apparently a lot of people like him or should I wait a little and see if he comes to me?:confused: :p :rolleyes:
  • Jan 2, 2007, 08:36 PM
    jahnplay
    Just start talking to him and its like use it or lose it just go talk
  • Jan 3, 2007, 01:41 AM
    chuff
    Do you want a guy that jumps from relationship to relationship?
  • Jan 3, 2007, 05:54 AM
    talaniman
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by chuff
    Do you want a guy that jumps from relationship to relationship?

    I think this is a darn good question. Have a darned good answer before you leap in like a lovesick school girl.
  • Jan 3, 2007, 11:49 AM
    Sodium
    Lol OK :P
  • Jan 3, 2007, 11:52 AM
    ForeverZero
    Was it a serious relationship to him? If so, then no good can come of you acting like a shark that smells blood in the water. It'll be hard to watch other people move in and possibly get a relationship with him, but in the end they're only setting themselves up for failure.

    If it wasn't a serious relationship, you'd be wise to find out why, and if you're just setting yourself up to be the next temporary girlfriend. After that if you've decided you still want in, then present yourself as available, but not desperate, and see how it goes.
  • Jan 3, 2007, 11:58 AM
    Sodium
    Hmm thanks for the advice
  • Jan 3, 2007, 08:08 PM
    s_cianci
    He's on the rebound right now. That's generally not a good thing. I'd wait a while on this one. Rushing into things will probably only leave you getting burned in the end.
  • Jan 3, 2007, 08:16 PM
    J_9
    Rebound relationships are NOT good. And you are 13, still pretty young.
  • Jan 3, 2007, 10:56 PM
    laurenlambchops007
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Sodium
    ok i like this guy but him and his gf just broke up and im wondering if i should go for him before someone else does, because apparently alot of people like him or should i wait a little and see if he comes to me?:confused: :p :rolleyes:

    I think if you go for him now, it may be kind of like a rebound. But it's great if you're not hoping to marry the guy. Get a little taste from every guy you can while your young, hunny

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