Why doesn't my girlfriend want me to stay at her place?
I have been with this girl for 3 years off anf on and I have always been allowed to sleep at my girlfriends house. Last year I moved away and since then we have been in a stressful long distance relationship in which we both have cheated at least once. Recently things have changed and now we are exclusive and I went to visit her a few weeks ago. While I was there she was reluctant to have me stay at her house because she didn't want the guy she was seeing for a period to see me there because she didn't want to hurt his feelings. Regardless, I spent days there. Im going back to visit her again at the end of this month for spring break and originally I was supposed to stay with her and last night she tells me that she doesn't want me to stay there with her because things are to "hectic". She seems distant on the phone a lot and tells me she's unhappy. She won't talk about it and she says we will figure it out when I get their. When I ask her what the deal is she doesn't answer and If I keep asking she hangs up. None the less she continually reassures me that she loves me and that she wants to be with me be. What the hell is going on?