Originally Posted by ceriphante
You know I'd seriously suggest if you're going to break up with first guy definately forget the second guy for at least three to six months...
here's why, the second guy... might be appealing to you so much for the very reason that he SEEMS to be able to fill the gaps your first partner isn't at first inspection, but maybe he's preying on knowing these things?
You know deep down I don't think there's EVER a valid reason to just leap from one relationship to another, because you really are taking a chance with your guard down... not only that but say things did work out wickedly well with the second guy, what happens 2.5 years down the track when he starts worrying that because he's busy and you have another friend that maybe you will repeat what you did with him etc?
The best course of action if you've decided you don't want to be with ur current partner give him closure, and then give yourself a few months alone, if after that time boy number 2 is still keen well maybe give him a shot, thats the most fair to all involved anyway..