My Boyfriend tells me he has strong feelings for me but doesn't know what he wants no
My boyfriend told me that he has strong feelings for me but doesn't know what he wants now. We had an disagreement because I expressed a concern about him being rude and inconsiderate to me lately - not calling and saying good-by before leaving town for a few days and heading straight to the bar with his friends when he returns, before calling me. He said he used to be really happy but now he is scared, because he got burned really bad once and he has been with me the longest since that relationship, and he is not sure what he wants and he is depressed cause his life is so terrible. But, he wants me to give him a few days?? Is that fair to me? And what the *&^$%#$%& does that mean? Is that the coward's way of saying "I don't want to see you anymore"! I know I have been very good to him and very accommodating up until the past few weeks. He expected me to sit around and wait on him and I didn't, I went out dancing, etc... I'm not sure what to do from here. Very hurt, angry and confused!!