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  • Apr 29, 2009, 07:25 AM
    1and0n1y
    Does he still have feelings for me?
    Me and my husband have been split up for a few years. We have 3 children together. He has a new girlfriend and a new child. We stay in touch and get along fine. We still have sex also. I recently got a new vehicle and he went and got the same kind. Are vehicles are identical. I just want to know if this means he still has feelings for me or being a copy cat?
  • Apr 29, 2009, 11:34 AM
    ylaira

    Your ex is the only one who can answer that. Buying the same car might just mean he likes your taste. Just stop having sex with him to avoid confusions and problems.
  • Apr 29, 2009, 11:56 AM
    ak_847
    I am a young adult not married just been dumped by my girlfriend for a small mistake I made but trust me I am matured enough to tel you your husband sux.. leave him and move on get a new man in your life.. he doesn't care about your feelings why should you care about him.. I know its tough but he's not worth anything.. hes just using you.. give him a good yelling a good dose of your mean medicine and go for anew life I can assure he will call back and cry in front of you.. because men can't ever see their ex o current with any other man it kills them..
  • Apr 29, 2009, 12:48 PM
    Romefalls19

    Ak, I understand you are hurting but I would be so general. It hurts both sexes equally to see their ex with someone else. You immediately think you are being replaced, the prick hits directly to the heart.

    To the OP, get some self respect and stand up to this user. He has his cake and banging it too. Stop sleeping with him, keep contact to the basic stuff and get a life without him
  • Apr 29, 2009, 12:59 PM
    liz28

    Getting the same as you don't = love. It obivious he enjoys having sex with you and is using the both of you.

    Be a woman about it and face reality and divorce him. You shouldn't never allow yourself to be used.

    You can still be friends with him because after all your have kids togethe but you don't have to have sex with him.
  • Apr 29, 2009, 02:55 PM
    none12345

    Feelings can't be turned on and off like a light switch so I'm sure he still has some feelings for you but not enough to be with you that's why he is seeing someone else.
  • Apr 30, 2009, 08:08 AM
    talaniman
    Quote:

    1and0n1y;1700041, Me and my husband have been split up for a few years. We have 3 children together
    That's some history, sorry it didn't work out.
    Quote:

    He has a new girlfriend and a new child. We stay in touch and get along fine. We still have sex also
    So you allow him to cheat, and you're the other woman now.
    Quote:

    I recently got a new vehicle and he went and got the same kind. Are vehicles are identical. I just want to know if this means he still has feelings for me or being a copy cat?
    That's weird to say the least, but guys often have feelings for their sex partner on the side. Getting a car like yours shows love you think? I don't.

    Seems he thinks you're a better mistress, than you were a wife.
  • Apr 30, 2009, 08:14 AM
    liz28

    Yes vehicles are identical because they make more than one so he just copied your style.

    Still that doesn't means he love you nor what to be with you.

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