I woke up today full of anxiety and just a general feeling of fear and I think its because I have a feeling that my boyfriend is cheating on me because he's been acting differently lately.
He's not as interested in sex as he used to be and he doesn't seem to want to talk to me or be with me as much as he used to.
We only see each other on weekends because I go to school in the city. He usually wants to see as much of me as he can but he seemed very anxious to drop me off back at school as soon as possible last night. Then today he didn't call or anything, when he usually calls throughout the day. I called him around 8 and had to do it 3 times before he called back ( I know, sounds obsessive, but the first time it was busy and sometimes his phone doesn't get the signal). He reminded me that it's Monday so he's out with the guys (sounds more like any day ending in Y) at a bar and can't talk, but reassurred me with an 'I love you'. I don't know about that. I asked if I should call him later but he said he would try to call unless he got really drunk and just got a ride home and passed out. We have a great relationship but this sounds really strange. He can't even find a few minutes in his day to talk to me? If he knew he wasn't going to be able to talk to me in the evening, why didn't he just call me earlier in the day like I've asked him to do? Is it too much to expect to talk to your boyfrined every day (for just a few minutes at least)?
I'm very stressed out right now because its finals week and all I can think about is this. I have papers to write and studying to do but I'm obsessed!
We have a great relationship in general. Over the weekend he struggled to tell me that he has found the woman he can spend the rest of his life with, that can make him happy, but that he's also scared he's growing up too fast (he just turned 21 a few months ago). It's not like I pressure him for marriage or anything like that, or that he is a man slut and wants to spread his seed, but he says its scary to think that he's with the person he could spend the rest of his life with.
So... he used to send me cute messages and call me more and he used to be a total nympho but now everythign is fewer and lesser.
I'm having a wreck of a day and can't even talk to him.
Should I be worried or just give him some space? More importantly, if the latter, how do I do that when I can't stop thinking about him and us?
I think I must be obsessed.
Help!!