Hi everyone! OK so here's the story, my boyfriend & I have been together for well over a year now, & its been almost 3 years since he was with his ex-girlfriend (now keep in mind that she cheated on him endlessly & laughed at him when he told her that he thought he was in love with her, saying that he didn't know what love was & then broke up with him). The problem is that ever since my boyfriend & I started dating she just won't to leave him alone.
She never actually comes up to him in person, she just messages and prank calls him ALL the time. I know he could just change his number but that would be a huge hassle because he uses it for work & we have tried barring her number but that doesn't stop her from calling or texting on other phones. We are both getting so sick of hearing from her.
She always says the same old crap like... "i was so stupid for letting you go. i miss & love you so much, blah blah blah" not to mention the several times that she has said that if he didn't go see her right then & there that she will kill herself and it would be all his fault. But we both know that that's just a ploy to get him to feel sorry for her & get him around there so she can try something on him. Its really is pathetic & desperate of her.
We have tried all we can think of, snapping back at her & telling her to get a life & leave him alone just gets us the response that we are being childish & ignorant (yeah we're childish:confused: ). Ignoring her results in her calling & hanging up for hours on end! Like on christmas eve, we had to be up really early to get to the coast, she messaged at like 9pm and when he ignored her she kept calling until like 3 in the morning! & it made it worse because he couldn't turn his phone off because we needed the alarm.
We are seriously starting to get frustrated with this psycho (no exaggeration, this isn't even close to half of what she says & does) , she just doesn't get it! Every time he asks her why she doesn't understand that he doesn't want anything to do with her & that he's happy with me & isn't leaving me, she just laughs & tells him that she always loved his sense of humor! OMFG!!
PLEASE PLEASE! Someone help, we are going CRAZY! We don't want to go as far as going to the cops or court, because honestly, with the way she is it would make things worse. I know that in a sick way (because she has said), she wants it to go that far so she can feel proud that she drove us to that extreme.
I'm really sorry that that was soooooo long everyone. This girl is mental & she will be the death of us if we don't find a solution to make her back off & soon. Again sorry this was long, thank you to everyone who takes the time to read it & give me their opinions, it will be VERY appreciated :)