She texted me happy birthday.
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I have been no contact for a month in a half. She just texted me happy birthday. Should I reply. This is the first time in a month that I have heard anything from her. I know all she is trying to say is happy birthday and there is no hidden message. Should I say thank you or just ignore it?
What about reminders/objects?
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Join Date: Jan 2010
Location: Florida
Posts: 21 reminders/objects
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I guess I am in the anger stage. My ex g/f broke up with me about 6 weeks ago. We have been together for 6 years. I really want to send her all the objects and reminders of our relationship. For 2 reasons: 1) I really want to get over her and I don't want all this **** that reminds me of her. I think it will help me move on. 2) I want her to have all the reminders and I guess I want her to feel pain as well. Maybe she wants some of the stuff she made me like the calendars and the pictures.
I just don't have the balls to throw this stuff away. I am so confused. I know how vindictive and immature it sounds if I send this stuff to her. But a part of me doesn't care. I want to move on. Do you guys think this is a good idea? I don't want this crap stuffed away in my attic. Please give feedback.