Hello,
My ex and I had a child in 1997. We were married 2 years later (1999) and separated a year after that (2000). We have been separated the past 15 years but never actually got a divorce. We both still live in California.
The time has finally come to get this divorce taken care of. Our daughter is still 17 but will be 18 in November and is already off to college in Oregon on her own.
We have no assets or debts or disagreements or anything.. so hoping it will be a simple process.
Here are my questions:
1. Do we need to include our daughter in any of the divorce paperwork or can we proceed as if we don't have a child together? If we need to include her now, would I still need to include her if I just waiting 2 months until she is actually 18?
2. If I were to file the paperwork now, what would happen with any new assets or debts that I acquire during the 6 month waiting period? If I expect to acquire assets during that time, what can I do to protect them, if needed?
3. The (ex) wife still has my last name. She may want to keep it, as it is the last name of our daughter. Does a divorce affect the status of her name? Or is that a separate issue, if she were to want to change it back?
4. What is a standard rate to have someone take care of this for me? I got a quote from someone for $500 ($250 up front and $250 when final). Is that reasonable? I don't want to deal with any of the paperwork myself.
Thanks for any input you can provide :)