Does she still want to be with me?
I've been with my girlfriend for nearly 7 months. It started great! She was texting me constantly, writing on my Facebook wall, an she always showed an expressed that she loved me an wanted to spend time together an saying how glad she was that she met me.
The last couple of months though she has shown very little interest. Usually when I text her she won't text back for ages or she won't at all, if she does text back she just writes short, blunt texts as if she can never be bothered to talk to me and that she doesn't care about anything I have to say. Whenever I want to see her I always have to go over to her town at her place or her mates place cause she doesn't come to mine and hasn't for months. She said she wanted to start coming to mine again but often shows signs as if she doesn't want to. So I'm unsure.
She pretty much never takes my calls anymore either, and when we're together and with her friends its like I don't even exist. She won't talk to me, sit by me or express herself towards me physically.
However a few weeks ago she wanted a puppy an she convinced me to meet her an get it for us an before I arrived she was texting me and making sure I texted back, when we got there she was standing very close to me holding my hands like she used to. I thought perhaps she would start to warm to me again but since I bought us the puppy it was back to her distancing herself from me. So I don't know if she wants to be with me anymore. But she says she does.
Although a lot of what she used to do has changed so I'm not sure cause she hasn't been completley honest with me staight away every time we talk about some things and she changes her mind about things sometimes to. I just want to know why she has been so distant lately. If there's any chance things can be like they were several months ago, and does anyone have any advice?
Am I right in thinking she's done wrong?
My ex finished with me over text almost two months ago. But she told me she maybe pregnant the other day but if she is its not my baby as we haven't slept together since July. But two weeks after she finished with me she said she slept with her ex. That made me feel like I meant nothing to her.she was spending a lot more time with her ex than me since she started meeting up with him again an we weren't as good as we were before.I noticed on Facebook the way they were talking to each other looked as though they were seeing each other without me knowing. But when I asked she said there wasn't anything going on. But then she goes an sleeps with him knwing how insecure it would make me which really hurt me. She said she did it because he makes her feel better about herself an I made her feel like crap. She also said she's not sure why else it happened. She said it just happened an that he was just there. She suffers from depresion though an she said she needed comfort. She said her ex was there to help her though but he's still in love with her an tells her all the time. She tells him too, even though she said she won't get back with him but she may want to get back with me. Her ex clearly just wanted her back an didn't care about me an her cause he slept with her an tells her he loves her even though it was during an after we were together. The other day She said she was getting tested for bipolar disorder though. But I don't know if she's trying to make excuses though. Either way, am I right in thinking she shouldn't of slept with him, especially two weeks after we broke up? Can I trust her? What should I do? I don't trust her ex. I think he's a poisenous snake.