What is going on with my wife.
I've been married for 9 years. Before marriage sex was not abundant, but it was at a steady flow. We have sex now on avrage of once per week. She never initates and has strict limitations about everything. Before we start she states what she is not doing (positions). Sometimes when I wish to have sex and she rejects me I find out that she masturbates instead of having sex with me. Ninety percent of the time she has orgasims. Once she has one the sex is over. Half of the time I don't get the opportunity to have one because she is so fast. The strangest thing about this is most of the time her vigina is so thight it that it is difficult to enter. This is after at least twenty minutes of forplay. When it is like that she usually has one really fast. I have notice that if we watch porn the vigina is loose enough for me to entere comfortbly. She says that the majority of the positions are uncomfortable. I ask if it is painful she quickly says no just uncomfortable. If she has one before me and I'm right at the point behind her she just stops moving. When I address this she swares that she didn't stop moving. The only positions that she say is comfortable is missionary and her one top. I have been turned down so many times that I don't feel comfortable initiating sex anymore. This is killing me. I don't know if I can live like this. She refuse to speak to a therapist or even her Dr. about the situation.