How do I move on from her?
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I searched for answers already but none work at all.
Basically I had been going out with her for 4 years, we broke up one time after the first year because she was not treating me right at all, but got back together 8 months later and sort of had a roles revesal in a way.
So we broke up the final time September last year, but we still acted like boyfriend and girlfriend buying each other gifts, and stuff and even had valentines day together which she she was the best valentines day ever! Anyway we got on really well, but about 3 months ago I found out she liked someone else, let it go, guy took drugs she went off him, but then I found out she actually liked another guy, who slept with one of her friends then broke up with her(her friend was a virgin) = not good.
so yeah since about 3 months we have been on and off, she wants to see me, then doesn't, then the other week she just said out the blue I have no romantic feelings for you, and they have been going since after valentines day.
I can understand its my fault because I had a lot of work, (final year of uni) so I put her on the back bench which was a mistake but I spent time with very few people then!
Question is how do I get this girl who I still love out of my head? She was getting over me gradually I see that now looking back and have accpted there is no chance for me with her now, but yeah, nothing is working! I still want her back! And she likes this other guy, completely not interested in me anymore! Or is she?
No contact, did I do the right thing?
Well I posted my worries over the past week and decided the best course of action was the no contact rule. Anyway I deleted her off Facebook and also deleted my ex's number,
Yesterday she sent be 2 short texts which I think were a build up to the next text. I replied to the both but kept it short and gave her the info she wanted (we planned a night out for after the exams a while ago and she wanted to know what was going on). So I told her.
The next text she brought up that she does not really want to go due to me deleting her off Facebook. So I thought is a bit mean just ignoring her without her not knowing why so I told her I'm moving on and stuff like she has and said its her choice to go or not.
Was I correct in just answering her questions? I didn't ask her any questions or tried to carry on a conversation, just short and sweet replies.