Wow... I have been having the same problem with my boyfriend.. We actually just got done arguing about this, hence me looking for advice via the interweb. I understand completely and hate having to feel insecure about myself because the person I'm in love with doesn't want to have sex with me. To me sex is really important in a relationship. Especially a long term one. I have often wondered if its worth breaking up over but never go through with it because I love him too much and still want to be with him. I understand how frustrating it can be and also wish someone could give me some really helpful advice..

Yammy,

It's not good to post your question as a piggyback on someone else's question. I've moved it to its own question, so that you can get more pertinent answers for your own question.

Has he actually said why he doesn't want sex?