How to tell that the father is not the biological father
Hello!
I am new here and I beg you for your pardon if it is not the right place for my post!
I'm writing on behalf of my sister who has a 10 yr. old son by accident. She was sleeping with 2 different men at the same time and became pregnant. She was relatively sure of who the father was and he assumed the role. Well, now that the child is older, it's very evident that he is not the father because there are no physical similarities. Now the biological father wants to be part of this child's life. The man that has raised him is not okay with this. Now, the child does not know that the man raising him is not his father.
The biological father lives 2.5 hrs. away and would like to see him 1-2 times per month. We will need to break the news.
What is the best way to do this and what do you say without causing emotional problems for this child and his legal father?We were told by counselors to have both fathers, mother, and child see a counselor and have the counselor tell the child the news with everyone present. What are your suggestions?
Another question-What will be the legal consequences of such action if the legal father resists ?
Thank you in advance!