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  • Sep 16, 2007, 02:27 PM
    gymnast6394
    Should I be mad?
    Okay I have this situation with my friends and I don't know if I should be mad. Here's what happened...
    Monday Morning-
    Asked Kendal if she wanted to go to the foot ball game on Friday night with me and maybe Sarah and Megan. She said it depends on what I am doing
    Monday at School-
    I asked Sarah and Megan if they would want to go with me and Kendal and they said yes.
    Thurday at School-
    Sarah brought it up again and said it was a definite yes.
    Thursday Night-
    Kendall called Sarah and Megan and asked if they wanted to go over to her house and they said yes. (Thinking I was going to be there)
    Friday Morning-
    Asekd Kendal if she was still going with me and she said she couldn't because she was going with Sarah and Megan and a couple of other people. Then I got mad at Sarah and Megan because I thought they were ditching me.
    Friday at School-
    I asked Sarah and Megan what was going on and Sarah said they were going over to Kendalls. Megan saw my eyes getting watery and my face get red so she said your coming too and I was like no I'm not Kendal didn't invite me. They said yeah she did she's taking you. So I asked Kendal if she was taking me and she said I don't know if we have room in the car!! Megan and Sarah offered to canel but I said no because I was to upset to go.
    They game turned out to be no fun! Which I was glad about! But should I be mad at any one or was this just a misunderstanding? Please help! Thank you!
  • Sep 16, 2007, 03:10 PM
    Skrypt
    Topic - Monday at School-
    I asked Sarah and Megan if they would want to go with me and Kendal and they said yes.
    - Thurday at School-
    Sarah brought it up again and said it was a definite yes.
    Thursday Night-

    Problem - Kendall called Sarah and Megan and asked if they wanted to go over to her house and they said yes. (Thinking I was going to be there)
    Friday Morning-
    Asekd Kendal if she was still going with me and she said she couldn't because she was going with Sarah and Megan and a couple of other people.
    Friday at School-
    I asked Sarah and Megan what was going on and Sarah said they were going over to Kendalls. Megan saw my eyes getting watery and my face get red so she said your coming too and I was like no I'm not Kendal didn't invite me. They said yeah she did she's taking you. So I asked Kendal if she was taking me and she said I don't know if we have room in the car!! Megan and Sarah offered to canel but I said no because I was to upset to go.

    From reading this my finger points to Kendal. She straight up left you out.
    I don't know you or your friends, but this was a pretty spineless thing to do and you probably want to take it out.
  • Sep 17, 2007, 03:45 PM
    daizeebug
    So sadly I can totally relate to your problem, and I'd say that I would be way hurt and pissed off too... but I do have to say that it sounds like a misunderstanding with sarah and megan, but this chic kendal sounds very rude.. I'd say talk to her about what happened and maybe you'll find some answers. She doesn't sound like she thinks of your friendship important enough.
  • Sep 17, 2007, 07:00 PM
    Miss lovley
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Skrypt
    Topic - Monday at School-
    I asked Sarah and Megan if they would want to go with me and Kendal and they said yes.
    - Thurday at School-
    Sarah brought it up again and said it was a definite yes.
    Thursday Night-

    Problem - Kendall called Sarah and Megan and asked if they wanted to go over to her house and they said yes. (Thinking I was going to be there)
    Friday Morning-
    Asekd Kendal if she was still going with me and she said she couldn't because she was going with Sarah and Megan and a couple of other people.
    Friday at School-
    I asked Sarah and Megan what was going on and Sarah said they were going over to Kendalls. Megan saw my eyes getting watery and my face get red so she said your coming too and I was like no i'm not Kendal didn't invite me. They said yeah she did she's taking you. So I asked Kendal if she was taking me and she said I don't know if we have room in the car!!!! Megan and Sarah offered to canel but I said no because I was to upset to go.

    From reading this my finger points to Kendal. She straight up left you out.
    I don't know you or your friends, but this was a pretty spineless thing to do and you probably wanna take it out.




    I couldn't agree with Skrypt more kendal knew the girls were going with you and she decided to lie to them to get them to go with her...
    My opinion you dump her because now you know what she is capable of
  • Sep 18, 2007, 05:34 PM
    Dnovy521
    This kendall, you need to get her out for your life
  • Sep 18, 2007, 06:33 PM
    wismer321
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by gymnast6394
    Okay I have this situation with my friends and I don't know if I should be mad. Heres what happened...
    Monday Morning-
    Asked Kendal if she wanted to go to the foot ball game on Friday night with me and maybe Sarah and Megan. She said it depends on what I am doing
    Monday at School-
    I asked Sarah and Megan if they would want to go with me and Kendal and they said yes.
    Thurday at School-
    Sarah brought it up again and said it was a definite yes.
    Thursday Night-
    Kendall called Sarah and Megan and asked if they wanted to go over to her house and they said yes. (Thinking I was going to be there)
    Friday Morning-
    Asekd Kendal if she was still going with me and she said she couldn't because she was going with Sarah and Megan and a couple of other people. Then I got mad at Sarah and Megan because I thought they were ditching me.
    Friday at School-
    I asked Sarah and Megan what was going on and Sarah said they were going over to Kendalls. Megan saw my eyes getting watery and my face get red so she said your coming too and I was like no i'm not Kendal didn't invite me. They said yeah she did she's taking you. So I asked Kendal if she was taking me and she said I don't know if we have room in the car!!!! Megan and Sarah offered to canel but I said no because I was to upset to go.
    They game turned out to be no fun!! Which I was glad about!! But should I be mad at any one or was this just a misunderstanding?? Please help! Thank you!!

    No need to be angry with Sarah and Megan. Kendall, well that is a different story. Sounds like she is the jealous type. Don't be mad at her, feel sorry for her. Life is too short to be mad about much of anything really. I'm not saying to hang out with Kendall or anything, what she did was not nice, I just think there is probably more of a reason than she doesn't like you or she actually wanted to hurt you. She is a sad little person if you ask me. Be nice to her, but don't go out of your way.

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