He cheated once, can I trust him again?
Been going out with this guy for almost 2 years. Had to find out from my friend that he got drunk with mates and ended up in bed with someone who practically threw herself at him. Lack of self control on his part! It hurts to have one's trust betrayed specially by someone you feel a lot for. This happened in March, I found out in April.
Cried the tears, forgiven the brother (taking some time), talked things through and given our relationship another go.
Indeed people deserve second chances, yet at the back of my mind, I'm dying to know the truth!
Has he learnt from his mistake (so he calls it that)?
How do I know if he is being true to our new commitment?
How much does this relationship mean to him?
How do I know he isn't just taking me for granted?
How do I know that this time he is for real?
Experts! Can you suggest:
Possible actions I can take to see if he is for real?
Signs to look out for if he really is committed and faithful?
I guess women feel secure if they are with someone they can trust!
HELP!