Uummm I'm n a situation my couson on my dad side wants to have sex with me I know that's nasty but he also a cop should I tell someone like a police officer or don't say nothing he my because and I love him but I want to do what's right

I think he is sick... I know these things happen where family members like cousins get atracted to each other but we all know this is so wrong... its called incest esp when it gets physical... first you should not entertain him at all when he speaks about it and the moment he starts talking about it you need to stop him. I think you should speak to your parents about it if you guys are close and have a good relationship and maybe the his parents who I would assume is your aunt/uncle or cousin... if you feel that he is being aggressive about it or too persistent and you c its getting to a point where its going to get out of hand then consult the police... sometimes if you know what is right and you don't put your feet down early enough, you can get yourself into a lot of trouble.. think of the hurt and shame it would put both of you through, your family, your parents, your siblings... I think it is sick!

Personally this idea disgusts me also.

I would like to mention that any child produced of a relationship such as this has the potential to be physically and mentally damaged.

Incest includes any physical sexual activity between family members; blood relationship is NOT required (this can, and does, include stepparents, nonrelated siblings, granparents, uncles, aunts, and cousins).

Hun you don't have to think IT IS SICK that's why I was asking my cousin is old and he should be ashame of his self I'm 19 and he is 35

Then you need to tell him that this is not an appropriate relationship and stay away from him.

Tell your mother, your father... someone of authority in the family.

OK thanks very very much for the help

I totally agree... saying it is sick is just to emphasize on it... we all know that... but you really need to report this to someone in authority in your family and if necessary to the police...

Police won't do anything about incest at her age though, as it is her decision at this age. Unless rape occurs. This is a gray area of the law.

She should be mature enough to handle the situation on her own.

TELL everyone if he does not back off! Just because he is a policemen means he actually has a lot to lose TELL HIM THAT I'm sure things will work out.

I can't help thinking that you are enjoying the attention, do you want to have sex with him?-please correct me if I'm wrong though.

Keep away from him tell your parent and never be alone with him. Ever

This Is To Xrayman...

Hell Ing No I Don't Want To Have Sex With Him Are You Out Of Your Dam Mind That's Nasty If I Wanted To Have Sex With Him I Wouldn't Had Posted This Up Here Im Trying To Get Help From You N You Think I Want The Attention Hell No Im Happily Taken N I Don't Do Family That's Real Nasty Well Thanks For All You Support I Really Appriecaite It

Sorry to offend, I did tell you to advise me otherwise. No need to go nuts, just trying to help.. for gods sake.

To quote you, You said "he my because n i love him but i want to do whats right" You may wish to clarify your situation perhaps a little better next time-

For your information, I felt it was not clear EXACTLY where you stood.

I will not be offering assistance to you any further nor replying to any questions by you in the future.

However, good luck with that...

How closely related are you and your cousin? (1st cousins, 2nd cousins?) If he is not closely related to you, I don't think it is necessarily "sick," a bit odd, but not "sick". Scientifically, there are few reasons to believe that cousins having sex is detrimental (2nd cousins or further apart have a low risk of genetic disorders in offspring).

Regardless of how closely you are related to him, I don't think there is anything the police would do unless he is threatening you in some way.

Uumm He's My 1st Because On My Father Side We Close N I Know That's Nasty I Would Never Think Of Him To Have Sex With Me Feel Me

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Uumm He's My 1st Because On My Father Side We Close N I Know Thats Nasty I Would Never Think Of Him To Have Sex With Me Feel Me

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If he doesn't relent tell a respected member of your family (as previous posters have suggested) maybe your parents, his parents, your grandparents, etc. Persistent unwanted sexual advances are not OK regardless of the relation. I didn't mean to suggest that you should put up with it, but wanted to clarify misconceptions many have about incestuous relationships.

Run forrest run, you don't need to be in a relationship with your distant because. This is not right, it's not normal, it's wrong, your heart should tell you this, your gut feeling should have kicked in that said NO WAY,

O Yea I Know That I Don't Talk To Him Anymore I Was Just Curious On What Should I Do Though Cause That's Very Nasty

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O Yea I Know That I Dont Talk To Him N E More I Was Just Curious On What Should I Do Though Cause Thats Very Nasty

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Well, if the advances have stopped and you don't even see him any more, you shouldn't do anything except move on with your life. What will dwelling on this do for you? A big fat NOTHING.

How did he treat you when you were younger? I really feel bad for you, because I know it puts you in a very awkward situation. Your because has some very serious mental issues going on here.

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How did he treat you when you were younger? I really feel bad for you, because I know it puts you in a very awkward situation. Your because has some very serious mental issues going on here.

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I wouldn't say he has mental issues, it's not like they're brother and sister and were raised together, nor is she a child. It is odd, but I don't think we should point to mental dysfunction whenever someone acts in a way that some cultures deem inappropriate.