When to know you should leave
Need advice from anyone at this point..
I have been married for nine years, for seven years in the marriage my husband has been doing everything for every one but his family. He has left me so lonely that about a few years ago, I went to visit family and ran into an old friend. Yes a male friend. He said the right things, touched the right places and yes I had an affair, not just of the body but of the heart.
Then I went home after my visit, and things still did not change with my husband. I have told him for years of my concern of being so lonely. I have begged for attention for years. He claims he loves me but will not do anything to change the situation. I know he has never cheated.
Here's my question, the man I had an affair with say's he loves me and wants me to move with him. He makes no money, he has baggage that can supply a whole luggage store and he lies all the time. But I can honestly say I feel better with him then I have with anyone.
Then there is my husband, he works. Makes good money. Has never lied to me. He is young. Oh by the way the other guy is very old. We have a daughter in school and we have a great home.
Do I go broke and go with other man just to smile, or do I stay where I can survive and be unhappy hoping it will get better.
I have no one talk to, so any help would be great..
Thankss