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  • Dec 22, 2010, 09:53 AM
    sh1er2man3
    What to say to a girl when she wants to break up?
    I know this girl for many years and we only got together three months ago. Damn I telling you it was a great feeling to be around her. Recently her parents told her to cut all ties with me all of a sudden after approving our relationship days earlier, I felt so heartbroken. I wanted to continue this relationship with her but she on the other hand don't. Anyway, she still tells me that she loves me and knowing the fact that I can't be with her and knowing that she still loves me, I am so depressed she worries a lot of not being able to communicate with me next year because her parents are taking her phone due to exams in the year. I just want her back in my life. Recently I asked her if she still loves me and she replied that she is not in the proper state of mind to answer.. what should I do?. we have done many things together except for sex. We were like on seventh heaven till all of this happened.. I need help guys.. please tell me what to do.. thnx a lot!
  • Dec 22, 2010, 10:02 AM
    answerme_tender

    For whatever reason she has moved on and so do you! Her response of "not in proper state of mind" pretty much says it all.

    I know your going through hard time, but you need to mourn your loss then get back to getting out with friends. Doing things that make you happy, there is a girl out there that is just waiting for you. Good luck
  • Dec 22, 2010, 02:25 PM
    I wish

    The little you can do. Let her know how you feel and let her figure out what to do next.

    You can't control her parents or her mind. You can only control your own actions. If she really wanted to be with you, she would find a way.

    But from what you've written to us, it doesn't seem like it's as simple as her parents forbidding her from seeing you. Seems like there's more to the story.
  • Dec 22, 2010, 04:09 PM
    Homegirl 50

    There is nothing you can do but leave her alone.
    You cannot ask her to go against her parents and she says she is not in a proper state of mind.
    It's time to get a hold of yourself and move on.
  • Dec 22, 2010, 10:43 PM
    Jiser

    Speak English!

    Get on with your life, let go and go no contact. E.g. remove all reminders, Facebook, msn etc.

    Do not check anything on social networks.

    Whenever you find yourself thinking about things try occupy yourself with something. Plan some things in your life in the mean time to stay busy.

    Time and staying busy, improving yourself - this is the way to heal.
  • Mar 13, 2012, 10:23 AM
    RitikShakya
    Man I have lost my girl just a day ago... Even we were in relationship from 6 years and enjoying our sex life from last 5 years, she dumped me just telling me that her parents is against us... And what I don't believe is this... donot ever believe in girls.. I went to her parents after she started to ignore me... So I believe true love donot exist everyone is selfish.. Me too, I wanted her just bcoz I love her.. n she dumped me just becoz don't know what the reason ofcouse not her parents.. So think twice donot waste your valuable time.. Do you know god Ram and krishna? If yes then just swip yourself from ram to krishna. I am at the same position cried a lot remembering those precious moments with her, lite more than 50 cigrette a day.. even taste weeds bunk graduation class.. Unnoticed leave from office.. Done everything hurting myself but m still at the same place can't move on and can't step back so please step out as soon as possible prevent yourself being like me OK n ever never make any girlfriend...

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