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  • Oct 1, 2009, 05:13 PM
    Mzz_Debbie
    I Cant Orgasm!
    Ok, so I've had sex with my boyfriend about 10 times and I can't orgasm.( he is my first) My problem isn't that I don't get wet, I really do, he can be sitting beside me and I think about what we do and... WET! Lol but I cannot orgasmm, and I am a pretty freaky girl, I masterbate a lot and know how to get myself off and he has resently started eating me out and that feels good 2 but I cannot come from us having sex! I am sooo jealous of those girls who can squirt too! like I'm so freaky but I can't even make myself squirt! Is there something wrong? Plzzzz help!
  • Oct 1, 2009, 05:19 PM
    troy70

    Do you even feel a climax? Is he getting off before you feel you even have a chance to? Or can you just plain and simple not orgasm?

    Has he tried fingering and maybe rubbing the gspot inside? Have you tried having an orgasm with penetration from a toy?
  • Oct 1, 2009, 05:21 PM
    troy70
    Too add from my last girlfriend... If I pleasured her clitoris too much before intercourse it had a negative affect on her orgasm from intercourse. Maybe try skipping stimulation of the before having sex? Just a suggestion.
  • Oct 1, 2009, 05:22 PM
    Mzz_Debbie
    He hasn't really triedd ingering me inside and touch mii g spot so imma deffintly get him to do that next time! And no we haven't used toys so mayb I should incorporate that too.. and I don't think the poblemis he comes to quickly, he actually can go on for a rather long time and after awhile it hurst a bit or I get bored..
  • Oct 1, 2009, 05:26 PM
    troy70

    Yea definitely sounds like you need to switch it up.. you shouldn't be getting bored at all. Try new places/positions/times. Wake him up before work and jump his bones! That outa help you out!
  • Oct 1, 2009, 05:35 PM
    Mzz_Debbie

    You imma try that.. the only thing is we are in a long distance relationship so its hard 2 jump his bones but imma deff try something!
  • Oct 1, 2009, 05:35 PM
    Mzz_Debbie
    Thankss Troy!
  • Oct 2, 2009, 02:20 AM
    shazamataz

    Having an orgams from sex alone is very difficult for a lot of women...

    I myself cannot orgasm during sex unless my clitoris is being stimulated... I find being on top is the easiest position to orgasm as you can grind pelvises together.

    Not all women can "squirt" either, don't stress.
  • Oct 2, 2009, 05:07 AM
    Synnen

    NO CHAT SPEAK!

    Type like an adult, or I WILL delete your thread. If you can't TYPE like you're not 14, I'm going to assume you're 14, and don't belong on an adult board.

    MOST women cannot orgasm from sex. MOST women do not squirt. Learn your own body, and then talk to him and teach him how to get you off WITHOUT just his penis.
  • Oct 2, 2009, 09:33 AM
    Mzz_Debbie
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by Synnen View Post
    NO CHAT SPEAK!

    Type like an adult, or I WILL delete your thread. If you can't TYPE like you're not 14, I'm going to assume you're 14, and don't belong on an adult board.

    MOST women cannot orgasm from sex. MOST women do not squirt. Learn your own body, and then talk to him and teach him how to get you off WITHOUT just his penis.
    ...
  • Oct 2, 2009, 09:43 AM
    Mzz_Debbie
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by shazamataz View Post
    Having an orgams from sex alone is very difficult for a lot of women...

    I myself cannot orgasm during sex unless my clitoris is being stimulated... I find being on top is the easiest position to orgasm as you can grind pelvises together.

    Not all women can "squirt" either, don't stress.
    Ok thanks a lot for your advice, I'm definitely going to try some different things.

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