Hi everyone -

I know this may sound somewhat weird, but I was wondering if any of you guys here could offer some advice on how to LOSE erections. Lately I have found that I am getting hard so easily and so frequently and it is really giving me grief - my main problem with it is that I can't talk to girls who I find attractive, without getting one. This is really annoying, because the fact is that I don't want to have sexual feelings towards these girls most of the time - I want to be able to interact and converse with them just like anyone else. And besides, it's not even that sex is one my mind - I simply get hard anyway.

I have thought that it may be because I am not getting enough sex - masturbation alone only resolves the problem temporarily. Truth is, I'd rather just not get erections in the first place, than have to deal with them in this way. Damn things!

Hi,
If this is really bothering you, I would suggest seeing a doctor.
He/she will be able to explain any medications that will help with this not happening too often.
Many men would LOVE to have this problem!!
But, I am sure there are medications that will slow down this process, just as there are those that make you hard; which you don't obviously need.
Best of luck,
fredg

Alex would you mind stating how old you are? Because if your in the range of 13-16 I would say its normal. I know anytime I saw a hot girl when I was younger I would get excited. Now I need something really hot to get me arroused (I'm 21)

All you have to do is every morning you wake up just masterbate so you are less sexual in the day

^^ LOL!!

how old are you man? If your like just going to puburty then its NORMAL! You'll pop a boner here and there, can't really control it. If your totally freaked out. May be when you wake up do a little exercise (like running or something)your mind will get away from it, and take a cold shower. Believe me its just puburty!

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Originally Posted by desii

^^ LOL!!!

how old are you man? if your like jsut going to puburty then its NORMAL! youll pop a boner here and there, can't really control it. if your totaly freaked out. may be when you wake up do a little exercise (like running or something)your mind will get away from it, and take a cold shower. believe me its just puburty!!

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Hey man, I don't blame you for laughing. I know how funny it must sound. The thing is that Im not going through puberty - Im nearly 21 years old. I remember when I went through puberty, the problem was pretty bad - I got hard all the time and couldn't control it. I know that's just natural. However, its been nearly 7 years since then, and Im beginning to grow tired of it. I can't be around a girl Im attracted to without becoming aroused. I often masturbate up to 3 or 4 times a day, and still erections persist. I also exercise pretty regularly, which doesn't seem to help.

I will see my doctor about this, but does anyone else know of what medications are available for this sort of problem? I am very weary of drugs that intefere with the body - it might affect me in situations where I want to be aroused.

Oh man! 21, that's pretty old to still be popping them. I have never had that big of a problem that when I talk to a girl I pop one. Here's what I would do. Before you talk to a girl, put your penis up in your waistband.that way when it pops, it will be unnoticible. But you are lucky that this happens so much. You should probably stop masturbating so much... too much can cause it to "go up" more. Do it like 2 or 3 times a week, but no more. Try running! Run like a mile a day. That should help. My dad is a doctor and I had a erection problem and he said to run. So I joined the track team.. and it has really helped
Sounds weird but it works