The nit picking boyfriend
:confused: what to do about a boyfriend who nit picks at you for the stupidest reasons?
example
1) telling me I don't use my brain when I'm around him!
2)me not washing me hands after everything, like when a cat is sitting a foot away from me. I haven't touched it, its not in my plate. What's the problem or is it just me?
3) he tells me that I do not try and that I need to try harder( I think try harder on what? To make him happy) what am I doing wrong?
There are other things, I just cannot think of them right now(any IDEAS)?
Just nit picking in general, which I don't know if he realizes it or not but it really puts me down. What should I do ?we just got off a 3 day break, when 3 days later after he came back. He's back to acting his normal self again telling me these things. Even if I am a little ditzy, shouldn't he love me for this anyway ?