Hi I'm mariam
There's a guy who's really nice to me and cute we became friends like 3 weeks ago then he surprised me by telling that he loves me and I'm the only one he wants to spend the rest of his life with ,to me I think he just wants anyone to love and it doesn't matter who she is cause that's somehow what he told a friend of mine I think I like him but things r going too fast between us he freaks me out actually by saying that we';re getting married when I'm a little older but I just want to live my age and my life I'm only 15! And he's 23 how is it even possible that he falls in love with me but then I think I really can't stand the idea of seeing him with some other girl
I'm just really confused don't know what to do for now we're friends but he just won't stop telling me how much he loves me and every time I don't know how am I supposed to respond to that

You respond by telling him to back off and you TELL YOUR PARENTS! Your feelings about this are right on. No 23 yr old should be romantically involved with a 15 yr old. This guy has a screw loose. He may not be a pedophile (though that is a definite possibility), he may just be very immature. But either way, this is not someone you should be involved with on any level.

In fact don't even respond to him at all. Just tell your parents immediately.

The thing is he actually cries when I told him like I think it's too early and stuff then he asked if he can talk with my mother! He's got my phone number and everything he will just never leave me alone
Yesterday he was like as long I'm with u friends or even more no one will even dare to have a crush on you it's just messed up

Yes, it's messed up. You NEED to tell your parents. Stop talking to this guy completely.

Yeah that's exactly what I want to do but like should I tell him something first?
I just don't want him to cry again it's just stupid

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Originally Posted by mariam15

the thing is he actually cries when i told him like i think it's too early

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He is trying to manipulate you. Or he is an emotional cripple. Either way you need to stay AWAY. Don't tell him ANYTHING just tell your parents about it today!

Okay that's what I'll do :) thanks guyz that whole thing was really annoying me

Good luck and let us know how you are doing. I really must compliment you on having a level head on your shoulders. Many 15 yr olds would have their heads turned by the attentions of a 23 yr old. You were smart enough to detect the oddity in his approach and let that make you uncomfortable enough to seek advice. Good for you!

I hope you stick around here, I think you can help other teens with advice.

Yes... please just tell your parents and don't even think about the crying thing. That is most likely a game he is trying to play with your head.

And I'm with Scott on this... it was awesome that you realized there is a problem with this. Good job and good luck.

Yeah I think telling my parents would end that all but it's just he once asked me if he can talk to my mom and I'm also helping him in getting a job outside the country so I think that's the only reason he;s sticking to me every time he talks to me about it I'm actually sick of it... after all I feel like he's fooling me
But it's okay I know what to do thank you guyz xxx

I hope you follow through. Don't feel sorry for him and don't make excuses to yourself about him. What he's doing is wrong and you know it is so follow through.