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  • Apr 30, 2007, 05:09 PM
    Dard
    How can I ask her?
    Hi. I have a question hope u can help me out. How can I ask my girlfriend to shave her pubes? I don't mean the arm pit ;)

    I donno how to ask her without hurting her, So please help me out here!

    Thanks!
  • Apr 30, 2007, 05:14 PM
    J_9
    The pubic area and the axillary area are 2 different parts of the body entirely!!

    I guess it really depends on your age as well as the length of time in your relationship.
  • Apr 30, 2007, 05:24 PM
    gypsy456
    Give her a certificate for a beautician... complete with a facial, a massage , manicure and a brazilian... that way she will feel pampered and not feel pushed... give it to her as a "package"... most women love it.
    Would be surprised if she doesn't...

    Good luck.
  • Apr 30, 2007, 05:25 PM
    Dard
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by J_9
    The pubic area and the axillary area are 2 different parts of the body entirely!!!

    I guess it really depends on your age as well as the length of time in your relationship.

    I know they are but I asked this question somewhere else and some people thought they are the same that's why I wanted to clarify, hence the *wink* :)

    We've been together for 4 months now and we both are 17, actually she's 7 days younger me.
    Any advice on how I can ask her?
  • Apr 30, 2007, 05:45 PM
    rebeldevil05
    Start a conversation with her about it... are you pretty open?
    Tell her you're thinking about shaving yours and if it would bother her.and then ask her if she's ever thought about shaving hers.be subtle you don't want to hurt her feelings... why do you want her to shave in the first place?
  • Apr 30, 2007, 11:28 PM
    Dard
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by rebeldevil05
    start a convo with her about it...are yall pretty open?
    tell her youre thinking about shaving yours and if it would bother her.and then ask her if shes ever thought about shaving hers.be subtle you dont want to hurt her feelings....why do you want her to shave in the first place?

    I never was a big fan of pubes I donno why I simply don't like them.

    Ye we're very open and tell each other everything. I like this suggestion of yours :)
  • Apr 30, 2007, 11:51 PM
    threelover
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Dard
    Hi. I have a question hope u can help me out. How can I ask my girlfriend to shave her pubes? I don't mean the arm pit ;)

    I donno how to ask her without hurting her, So please help me out here!

    Thanks!

    Depending on how intimate your relationship is, tell her you'd like to spice things up and tell her to shave her pubes. Tell her that it would be a different kind of sensation for her, as well as you, and that you'd even be more attracted to her. Tell her that if she shaves hers, than you'd shave yours so that you can be going through it together, as a couple, instead of just her catering to you.
  • May 1, 2007, 01:10 AM
    laura hamilton
    Tell her it would really turn you on if she shaved her pubes.
    And you would love to see what she looks like without them!
  • May 1, 2007, 01:18 AM
    Dard
    These last two answers seem very helpful!
    Thanks :)
  • May 2, 2007, 04:34 PM
    kyrazbak
    Take a shower with her and tell her that you would like to shave her legs... Then ask her if you can shave the other... You can't go wrong... You can let her shave you too!
  • May 3, 2007, 01:50 AM
    laura hamilton
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by kyrazbak
    Take a shower with her and tell her that you would like to shave her legs... Then ask her if you can shave the other... You can't go wrong... You can let her shave you too!


    This works my other half did this!
    Great Idea.
  • May 6, 2007, 02:05 PM
    fix-what-you-broke
    You could ask her for her top turn ons and then tell her yours including the shaved side of things, see what her reaction is then take it from there
  • May 7, 2007, 08:39 AM
    smoothy
    Try asking her... and say how sexy you find it to be. And if she is hesitant, tell her she can shave you first...

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