I have been with my girlfriend for the last 20 months in which we love each other just like the first day we met,then in the last 6 months things started to go wrong and to make things worst my previous ex called her and told her lies, now she said that she wants some space to think. Recently I came back from my home country and she told me that we are over and that she doesn't love me anymore, which I find hard to believe. How and what can I do to get my girl back ? Cause I know we really love each other.

You can't make her come back, all you can do is heal your heart now. She said she wanted space, give it to her. Go No Contact... Don't call, write, myspace or anything! Get on the road to recovery ASAP! The sooner the better, don't try becoming friends with her again, make no effort for anything on your part. Take this time to heal yourself, better yourself and do some stuff you have been slacking off on. Join a gym, it's a pretty popular reserve on here. Also whenever you're feeling the need to talk to her, let it out on this forum, we can help. We have all been where you are and eventually you will come her so often you will start to become and advice giver as well. Trust me, it will get better with time but you must go NO CONTACT! For yourself and your own sanity

"she doesnt love me anymore, which i find hard to believe. how and what can i do to get my girl back ? cause i know we really love each other."


Chances are if she told you she doesn't, and she dumped you, she really is no longer in love with you.

Hard to hear and face up to but its time for you to move on.

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she wants some space to think.

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Give what she ask for, and put your life back together, by being happy with yourself. There is no magic potent to get her back, that's up to her, but leave her alone, and deal with your life without her.Sorry for your loss.