Originally Posted by truemountaineer
Hi I was wondering if anyone could give me independent advice over a situation I am currently in with a girl. I have been told by several mutual friends that there is something between us and that I have been missing the "green light" so to speak for the past 3-4 weeks.
She came to my campus about 2 weeks into the start of term and ended up missing her bus back so crashed round. We watched a film until about 3am and then fell asleep on the floor where I later put a duvet over her. She said that I could share it with her and I declined.
The following day i invited her to the ball and she accepted and added me on msn where we chatted for several hours a day. When her exams finished she came to my campus for a night out and we got on really well with her throwing her arms round me several times. We went a bit distant in the actual club but chatted on msn when she got home and the following morning. She then started ignoring me for about 4-5 days before chatting to me again but things didn't quite seem the same since then.
She came to the ball and we had a great time. I missed some obvious signs at this stage apparently such as the continuously putting her arm round me and when she actually held my hands a couple of times. Apparently a mutual female mate has said is that if I had kissed her she would have responded.
She is coming to my campus again tomorrow (Wednesday) and I asked if she wanted to go for a bite to eat after the training. She has said "Yeah sure". Is there anything there or does she just want to be friends?