How do I know if I have a loose vagina?
*By the way, I am 18 now so please don't delete my post because of my username :p*
I lost my virginity a few months ago, and it didn't hurt at all! I certainly felt something - it was very pleasurable - but I didn't experience the agony I'd been warned of (or any kind of discomfort really) nor any blood whatsoever. This is what first made me suspicious that I wasn't particularly tight.
Since then my boyfriend and I have been having sex several times a week, and every time I thoroughly enjoy it and almost always manage to reach orgasm without any clitoral stimulation at all :D but I get so paranoid about the fact that nothing seems to hurt me and what it might mean! I have asked him lots of times if he thinks I might be loose, (although he was a virgin before me anyway so he has nothing to compare me to) and he says that everything feels great for him, I don't feel what he would expect loose to feel like and he wouldn't want me to be any tighter. But maybe he's just saying this to make me feel better? I also asked him if he could feel when I have an orgasm and he said no, and I thought that it was normal for the man to feel the contractions (again causing me to worry about being loose)?
I'd just like to know if it's likely that I am indeed loose despite being only 18, or if I'm worrying unnecessarily and I was just lucky to have a pain-free first time. So is there any way that I can know?
Thanks for reading.