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  • Jul 14, 2010, 10:43 AM
    EmoPrincess
    Activities for a 6 year old
    Every week day (with the exception of yesterday) I babysit my six year old brother. I am running out of fun ideas! Any suggestions?
  • Jul 14, 2010, 10:51 AM
    redhed35

    Face painting,

    Finger painting.

    Build a fort.

    Storm the fort.

    Dress up as warrior and storm the castle.

    Wet newspaper and cover blown up ballons,allow to dry and paint.

    Set up an assault course in the yard and time him to run it.

    Bake something.

    Make mud pies.

    Wash the dog.

    Make up stories and act them out.
  • Jul 14, 2010, 10:55 AM
    EmoPrincess
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by redhed35 View Post
    face painting,

    finger painting.

    build a fort.

    storm the fort.

    dress up as warrior and storm the castle.

    wet newspaper and cover blown up ballons,allow to dry and paint.

    set up an assualt course in the yard and time him to run it.

    bake something.

    make mud pies.

    wash the dog.

    make up stories and act them out.

    Thank you very much Red, only problem is we aren't allowed to make much mess
    And my brother is also kind of a clean freak... He won't touch anything wet, sticky, or dirty. Thank you for the other ideas though, my brother will be grateful
  • Jul 14, 2010, 11:03 AM
    jmjoseph

    What kind of things does this boy like to do?

    And for the record, ALL little boys have the right to be dirty from time to time. It's in the genes.

    Does his father not allow certain types of fun?
  • Jul 14, 2010, 11:05 AM
    EmoPrincess
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by jmjoseph View Post
    What kind of things does this boy like to do?

    And for the record, ALL little boys have the right to be dirty from time to time. It's in the genes.

    Does his father not allow certain types of fun?

    Our dad doesn't like mess and my little brother honestly HATES getting muddy or covered in anything wet or sticky (he's more on the picky and neat side)

    He likes to play video games, bake, and destroy things.
  • Jul 14, 2010, 04:48 PM
    jmjoseph

    Baking is cool for kids. Find some good cookie recipes. How about board games? Drawing? Reading?
  • Jul 14, 2010, 05:15 PM
    justcurious55

    I always liked to make chores into a game. I convinced my little brother that doing the dishes after I made dinner was really fun. :)

    What about dominoes? He can help you set them up. Then get to knock them over and watch them all fall down. That might keep him entertained for a little bit. Or scrabble. I love scrabble, I got the super scrabble board. That version takes at least 2 hours
  • Jul 14, 2010, 05:25 PM
    Wondergirl

    Read books to each other.

    Make a book out of printer paper cut in half the long way -- first write a story elsewhere, then print it on the printer page. Add illustrations and color them. Or use full sheets of paper and staple them together into a book form (or punch holes and use yarn to hold the pages together).

    Jigsaw puzzles

    Easy crossword puzzles

    Go to the library and get a kids' cookbook to try out recipes from

    Play Concentration. Use playing cards face down or tiles that have matched pairs or make your own out of posterboard
  • Jul 14, 2010, 05:53 PM
    Fr_Chuck

    Most would rather sit and play video games all day.

    And also "kids not allowed to get dirty" some parent needs to wake up to real life
  • Jul 14, 2010, 06:59 PM
    DoulaLC

    Play some video games together
    Card games
    Get a book on magic tricks and practice some together
    Build with legos
    Bike ride
    Go to the park
    Read
    Puzzles/brain teasers
    Childrens' museum
    Finger paint with chocolate pudding... tastes good and might ease him into being more comfortable with a bit of mess

    I always said, if my kids didn't get dirty sometimes they didn't have enough fun!
  • Jul 14, 2010, 10:44 PM
    YeloDasy

    You can paint with marbles. Get paint in a cardbaord box with marbles. Drop them on paper and roll them around. Kids love it. You can do have him cut collage stuff out of magazines and create fun things. Have a theme day and do things that are all about that theme. Paint a bird house and get seeds to put in it. MAke funny rules for the day and laugh at each other. I will think of more and let you know. :) Oh, make masks. That's fun.
  • Jul 14, 2010, 11:00 PM
    kp2171
    Will he explore? Follow maps? Solve puzzles?

    My son, 6.5, is different in that hed stick his face in mud if given the OK...

    But any time I add "explore" or "discover" to any task... it engages him.

    The day we went on the bike trail, but then stopped and went off "exploring" a side trail that could only be followed on foot... he still talks about our "secret tree" that was fallen over the creek.

    Kids that age love to learn, love to explore, love to imagine and make up stories.

    Make a time capsule to bury and dig up sometime in the future... even if its one year...

    Have him grow a plant and tend to it... a flower or a veggie plant... doesn't matter... something he can "own"... my son has several plants in my gardens... he planted them... he must weed them... must water them... I help remind him... but he takes great pleasure in knowing they are "his"... and it teaches him how to take care of something...

    etc...

    We spent a month once just measuring and documenting the height of a sunflower plant, recorded in pages in a binder. It was an "experiment"... it didn't fill the whole day, but it was a part of every day.

    A kid that age just wants to imagine and learn.
  • Jul 15, 2010, 06:03 AM
    rstella
    Have you tried crafts? I recommend mosaics - not the crazy complicated ones, but using large shards of pottery (not sharp!). Or go to any crafts store and just wander around, you'll come up with a slew of ideas in no time.
  • Jul 15, 2010, 06:05 AM
    rstella
    I would recommend going to any crafts store and just wandering the aisles - you'll come up with some great ideas in no time.
  • Jul 15, 2010, 07:25 AM
    Wondergirl

    Keep him away from video games while he's in your care. There are plenty of things to do that are fun in other ways, and allow him to be creative, be challenged, etc. Video games and TV are finally starting to get a bad rep. for how they stifle kids and cause them to get dopey, be more comfortable with violence, and gain weight.
  • Jul 16, 2010, 07:56 PM
    EmoPrincess
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    Keep him away from video games while he's in your care. There are plenty of things to do that are fun in other ways, and allow him to be creative, be challenged, etc. Video games and TV are finally starting to get a bad rep. for how they stifle kids and cause them to get dopey, be more comfortable with violence, and gain weight.

    He's only played so far 20 minutes this week. I've been having him go outside and play
  • Jul 16, 2010, 07:57 PM
    EmoPrincess

    Thank you all so much!
    These ideas are great and my brother will love them
  • Jul 16, 2010, 08:03 PM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by xXxEmOxXxPrInCeSsxXx View Post
    Thank you all so much!
    These ideas are great and my brother will love them

    How does this thread fit in with your other one? How did you keep your brother off video games all week? What kind of play outside? Were you out there too?
  • Jul 16, 2010, 08:05 PM
    EmoPrincess
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    How does this thread fit in with your other one? How did you keep your brother off video games all week? What kind of play outside? Were you out there too?

    He just hasn't suggested video games until today
    He plays on the swingset swims, slipnslide, soccer, football, baseball, etc
    I play with him outside

    I figure if I can get more activities for him,he'll act better, probably a wrong assumption.
  • Jul 17, 2010, 01:01 PM
    DoulaLC
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by xXxEmOxXxPrInCeSsxXx View Post
    He just hasn't suggested video games until today
    he plays on the swingset swims, slipnslide, soccer, football, baseball, etc
    I play with him outside

    I figure if I can get more activities for him,he'll act better, probably a wrong assumption.

    Maybe not... you'd be surprised how much plenty of physical activity can do for behavior! Continue with the activities, stand firm with the expectations you have for him, and see what results you get after a few weeks time.

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