I have been married for 5 years. My husband is a big flirt. A year ago he and my best friend start flirting each other. I talked to my friend if there were something going on between her and my husband, she said to me no. So I asked my husband the same question my husband responded by telling me I have a insecurity problem. I really didn't like that way he acted every time my friend comes home. So I finally stopped the relationship with her. I'm no longer friends with her. Finally my husband told that he did pat her lips a couple of times. That really did hurt me cause he did that before with he's exgirlfriend. He did that before with some else. Now he does it with my best friend. On top of that he's friends with her husband and now he want to visit them plus take my kids to their house. After all the hard time I went trough with he's flirtyness with her and kissing her. I think he has no respect for me at all. Am I exaggerating too much? He's done other awful things to me.. like for he's 30th birthday he's mom and I trowed a big party for him and on the party he's exgirlfriend came, after a while he disappear I looked for him everywhere until I knocked on the bathroom door and there he was with the door locked inside with he's exgirlfriend. I cried all night that night and he told me was the same a pat her lips the same thing he did with my best friend. Should I believe him?