Children touching other children inappropriately
My nephew is 10 and my daughter is 7, she said that he touched her bum under the covers, that was last year. I told my sister and she got mad at me and said my husband blew it out of proportion, I was concerned about her son. We stayed away awhile and when together made sure they were supervised. NOW, my husband caught them in the pool together and jumped apart and pulled their pants up, he sent her in to tell me what they were doing and she said he put his bum on my bum, I'm sorry! He is speechless when confronted. I had my father pick him up instead of spending the night. While waiting for my dad to come I heard her say "don't grab my butt" when is this typical kid touching like my dad says? And when should something be done about it like my husband says? He also plays with his 8 year old neighbor girl daily, what is he doing to her? My sister took the last time so lightly as wrong and then was mad at me that I hate to mention it again but want help for her son if needed, I will definitely take my child to a counselor. Is this normal behavior / touching?
Comment on ScottGem's post
He is on medicine for ADHD but shows several signs of bipolar. Not much structure to his life, Dad is a MAJOR beer drinker, every day after work and weekends. Never really drunk, just short tempered. Does help coach, not a lot of positive parenting.
Comment on mrshodges's post
I did and will again, thank you!
Comment on ScottGem's post
Thank you for the input, we have been keeping them apart and hope that we can talk to my daughter about it enough that they can eventually be together again and she will stand up to him