Ive only been with my boyfriend for about 4 months. In the beginning we had sex constantly. He made me feel sexy. After we made it official and he started a new job the sex died off. At first I figured it was due to the new job. He was tired and adjusting. But a couple months have passed, and now we have sex about once a week, if I'm lucky. Its caused a couple fights and I've asked him if its me & have tried talking to him about it. That gets me nowhere. He says he is attracted me. But its getting to a point where I now feel unattractive, like he doesn't find me sexy and starting to think he is cheating. Although I'm not sure when he would cheat, but when we are apart that's when those thoughts come up. I've neveraccused him directly. When we do have sex its amazing! But truthfully Im tired of being turned down, tired of feeling like I'm not good enough. I'm at a loss. And thinking he is cheating is my only conclusion. Cause if he's not getting it from me, where is he getting it from? I might add that before we got together he had a reputation. So I know he enjoys sex and lots of it. I'm at a loss.