In love with a married woman
I am 42 years age and married happly since 16yrs. Nice loving wife and 2 kids 14yr and 11 yr old.I am in love with a 37yr old married woman who is also married happly since 10yrs.we know each other for last 11 yrs. We liked each other and are in same job. For the last few months we have come too close to each other and found that we are in love. Now the situation is that we want to spend more and more time together. But our spouses are not aware of it. She is my good family friend too. We are yet not in any kind of physical relationship but we tend to do so. We want to carryon with our relationship without disturbing our families. How can we do so?