How to understand my sons addiction
Hi there, I need help understanding my sons oxy addiction. He is 21 yrs old and never takes responsibility for his own actions. He was raised by his dad and has been in some kind of trouble every since he was around 12 or 13 yrs old. Me and his dad had separated since he was 10. Dad has always been the grandma type of love he sugar coats everything and with me mom he says I make him want to do more pills. He has tried treatment before and thought he could do it so he checked hisself out of treatment early and after about a month and a half of suppossibly still having with withdrawals like vomiting, shakes, can't take stress or anything else he is right back on the drug but supposibly worse. All my son can say is that its addiction mom and you have no idea. Am I wrong for trying to make see that there is a reason why he has learned to rely on pills? He tells me about the withdrawals had the fact that when you stop your bones start to ache, but how long after you stop taking the drug does that start? How do I get him to understand he could being doing this to run from pain deep down that he never got help for? I mean he says he can't make it through the day without the drug if he tries he gets frustrated, crabby over anything especially me when I talk to him. Can you help me understand him and his problem?