My husband of eleven years told me he wasn't in love with me anymore. We have been separated a little over a year now. He has a girlfriend which he says is not serious. I have filed for divorce but for some reason he does not want to divorce me. He says, "he cares because he calls to see how I am doing", but he is not willing to give up the girlfriend. Now he comes to me and says, "I'll stop seeing my girlfriend if you stop the divorce". Is this the start of working things out, when it sounds more like. Lets Make a Deal? Is he up to something or is he being sincere and wanting to work things out? Stop the divorce or proceed with the divorce?