Don't know where we are headed.should I ask?
I have no idea where the girl I'm dating wants to go with this. We've been seeing each other for over a month, and recently started sleeping over each other's places about once a week. Her interest level is higher than mine, always initiating our dates and all the physical stuff that comes with it. She pays for her own share and has the qualities I look for in a potential relationship-material and I am starting to have feelings for her.
Problem is, she's admitted to missing her ex, of whom she stopped seeing over a year ago but still remains friends with. The other night we were fooling around and she started crying, saying how she felt vulnerable with me but felt compelled to trust me and let me take her where I wanted us to go. Weird...
I don't feel like being dragged into something which will only be a waste of time. I'd like to know where she wants to go with this, especially with her residual feelings for her ex.
How can I bring this up? How do I ask?